Dean Kilby • June 24, 2025
Stop Waiting for the Right Accidents: Choose, Act, Finish - And Live an Invented Life

We’ve all been guilty of it — Waiting.

Waiting for the perfect moment, the right circumstances, the inspired mood, or that accidental collision of luck and timing that will somehow launch us into action. But the truth is, that moment rarely comes. And even when it does, it doesn’t last.


Here’s the liberating truth:

You don’t need the stars to align before you begin! You don’t need more clarity, more time, more validation, or a sign from the universe. What you need is choice. What you need is to stop waiting for the right accidents to happen and instead, become the source of your own momentum.

Say What You Want

This is where it begins. Be bold enough to declare it! Not mumble it, not whisper it to yourself in the mirror when no one’s around but say it with conviction. Speak it into existence with full ownership. The power of declaration isn’t in magic; it’s in clarity. When you name what you want, you give yourself permission to create it. You activate your agency. You become sourceful, not reliant on chance, but driven by intention.


Most people avoid this step because they fear failure, judgment, or the embarrassment of falling short. But the irony is this: not declaring what you want is the fastest path to never getting it. Speak up. Be unreasonable. Let your desires be heard, especially by yourself.



Then Go For It

There’s no blueprint for your life that’s already written. The good news is, you get to invent it. But that requires action… real, imperfect, momentum-building action. You can’t tiptoe into greatness. You can’t dip your toes into purpose. You’ve got to jump in, get wet, and swim.


Forget waiting to “feel ready.” No one feels ready. Confidence comes after commitment, not before it.


And don’t confuse “going for it” with chaos or rushing. It’s not about doing everything. It’s about doing something — something aligned with your vision, something that matters to you, something that, if completed, would make you proud. This is what it means to live on purpose.



Just Do It… On Purpose

The world is full of people doing things accidentally. Drifting. Reacting. Hoping. Surviving.


But you — you can invent. You can design. You can live on purpose and do things on purpose. There’s nothing more powerful than a human being who’s deliberate.


Doing it on purpose doesn’t mean you’ll always succeed. But it does mean that win or lose, you’ll know you were in the driver’s seat. You’ll stop outsourcing your power to external circumstances, and start generating your own results.


Being purposeful means taking your life seriously - not in a heavy, stressed-out way — but in a way that honours the opportunity you’ve been given. You’re here. You’re alive. That’s already a miracle. Now what will you do with it?



Pick Something and Finish It

Here’s where so many people stumble: the start is exciting, but the finish requires something deeper. Grit. Integrity. Willingness.


Finishing is where transformation lives. It’s where identity is forged. And the act of completing something… whether it’s a task, a project, a conversation, or a commitment… builds a kind of inner strength that becomes unshakable over time.


You don’t need to pick the perfect thing. Just pick something. Then finish it. Let it shape you. Let it teach you. And let it build the muscle of follow-through.


Momentum loves completion. Confidence comes from evidence. If you’re stuck in self-doubt or spinning your wheels, ask yourself: What have I actually finished lately? Then go do that. Start to finish. Watch your life change.



Be Sourceful. Live an Invented Life.

To be sourceful is to recognise that you are not a victim of your past, your circumstances, your genetics, or your habits. You are the wellspring. The origin. The author.


You don’t need to wait for inspiration to strike like lightning. You don’t need to pray for miracles while sitting on your hands. You don’t need to watch others create lives they love while telling yourself it’s too late for you.


It’s not too late. You’re not behind. You’re right on time.


The invented life is not the default life. It’s not the one handed to you. It’s the one you create. You design it with choices, declarations, and consistent action. You bring it to life through courage, resilience, and completion.


Stop waiting. Start inventing. Say what you want. Go for it. Just do it — on purpose.


Your life is not a series of lucky breaks.

It’s a masterpiece in progress.

And you are the artist.


Dean Kilby is the founder of Simplr Health and a pioneer in regenerative medicine and human transformation. He coaches people to live purposefully, powerfully, and in full ownership of their potential.


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